Responding To Criticism

Jal and Imran were two actors who were harshly criticized in the press.

Jal was so angry and upset he immediately wrote a sharp letter defending himself and flaying the critic in tones even harsher than the former had done. The relations between these two men became so strained that it endured for the rest of their days.

Imran, slept over the matter, and the next day the sting was less severe. Then he wrote to his critic, thanking him for pointing out certain weaknesses in his performance and assuring him that his criticism was welcome. The kind reply touched the critic and the two became lasting friends.

Criticism can often be very constructive and helpful and praise can be mere flattery that does not teach us much.